I just discovered something distressing today. My absolute smartest student, is not planning on going to college. I have long known that my students (and Japanese students in general) don't go to college as universally as I would like, but I can chalk that up to cultural differences. College is not seen as essential to getting a good job. In fact, companies tend to frown on bachelor's degrees that don't carry with them practical skills (*cough cough* liberal arts), preferring instead 2 year technical programs where applicable. So, with most of them, I can let it slide. However, this girl is very bright.
Her name is Momoko, and she's the equivalent of a high school junior. Because of differences in the academic calendar, she just started her junior year in February. Her English is amazing. Far from fluent, but able to hold a conversation, and her pronunciation is nearly perfect. In short, she's a lot better than most of her teachers. I can only directly attest to her English ability, but I know last year there was talk in the teachers' room that she was the only student to get the highest marking on all sections of some kind of achievement test. If Japanese schools did class rankings, she'd probably be number one.
Now that I'm done singing her praises... Today after a tutoring session for a speech contest (in which she placed 3rd in the prefecture last year), I wanted to talk to her some about study abroad. She then told me she didn't plan on going to college. After pushing my eyeballs back into their sockets I asked her why. Basically, she wants to start working right away so she can be independent of her parents. No real plan past that. (BTW: I'm quite proud of myself for maintaining my composure during this conversation.) I didn't exactly know what to say to her. Obviously I told her I think she should go, and I listed just a few perfectly valid reasons. I was at least relieved to hear that I'm not the only teacher that has told her that. Even in Japan which doesn't belive in unnecessary education, especially for women, everyone believes she should go. At the end, she did promise to think about it some more, and she did seem a bit conflicted.
I just can't believe that such a high-achieving student would even consider not furthering her education. It blows my mind. I know I'm a foreigner, completely ignorant to the ways things are done in Japan, but I wish there was something I could say that might help change her mind. I hate to think of that kind of wasted potential.